Another clear sign he likes you is if he is actively trying to hang out with you, or help you, or find out more about you. There are also indicators like eye contact or compliments, and showing that he's interested in your physical appearance, or who you are as a person.
There are a few dead giveaways that indicate he's interested. If he holds a hug for a super long time or he “accidentally” brushes your shoulder or touches you, he's probably into you. If he's just being friendly, he may smile and make eye contact, but he won't go out of his way to touch you.
A flirty guy will talk about his love life, best date, romantic nights, and related topics. The reason is to allow you to have a glimpse into his romantic side. If he is friendly: A friendly guy will talk about his interests, hobbies, work, etc. They will rarely mention anything related to their love life.
Physical touch is a big sign that they're interested.
If you spend any time around your ex and they “accidentally” bump into you, graze your shoulder, or touch you, it's a major sign that they want you back. People don't go out of their way to make physical contact if they're just being friendly!
If you find that he's listening more attentively or going out of his way to spend more time with you than his other pals, it could be a clear sign of romantic interest. However, if you see that he approaches you with the same interest as the others in the friend group, then he's probably keeping you in the friend zone.
During the flirting stage, a guy who likes you will attempt to show you his best sides. He'll talk about his new apartment, his band, his promotion, or his talents. Some men may even shower you with expensive gifts, invite you to watch them play a sport, or make an extra effort to improve their physical appearance.
There is a good chance that the man in your life is interested in dating you if he seems to be putting a lot of effort into seeing you. If he only gets one or two days off per week and he chooses to spend them around you, then that's a clear sign.
They change their body language around you
Notice if your crush immediately stands straight when they see you or if they fix their hair or clothes and smiles when you're around. Another indicator that a person likes you is if they face you directly when you interact with them, particularly their feet.
If your crush never makes any moves to be near your or even seems to actively avoid situations where you might be in physical contact, that's a pretty good indicator they're not looking for anything romantic.
It can also feel like your heart does a leap when you see your crush and you feel warm and giddy. Do you suddenly feel nervous but excited at the same time? Maybe you feel like you want to hug that person or be with them all the time. These are all normal reactions to having a crush.
You might feel shy or giddy or maybe even shy and giddy all at once! Some people can't remember what they want to say when they see their crush. They feel speechless, or tongue-tied. Some kids might chase their crushes around the playground, call them on the phone, or tease them to get attention.
Guys that are into you often use lots of emojis, text first, or even double text. Watch for in-person signs, like holding eye contact, respectful little touches, or leaning in close. A follow-up text after a date or hangout, or a raincheck when he can't make it are sure signs that he wants to spend more time with you.
“Subtle openness like loose arms (never fold them), lots of eye-contact, smiles and giggles to his comments are all good. Just don't take it too far, like leaning in showing cleavage, or not sitting like a lady.” Use your powers of attraction to grab the attention of other men in the room.
Contrary to popular belief, guys always seek attention from girls—especially the ones they like. Guys try to hide the fact that they like the girl by teasing her. In a way, it's still flirting.
Certain body language, like licking his lips, moving his legs closer to you, asking about other men in your life, and raising his eyebrows while you talk, can clue you in about someone secretly liking you.
On the most basic level, you are in the friend zone with someone if they only see you as a friend and don't have any romantic or sexual feelings for you. They might even see you like a sibling. This usually occurs with someone you've known for a while, such as a childhood friend or someone in a shared friend group.
"A situationship is that space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship," explains psychotherapist and author Jonathan Alpert. "Unlike a friends with benefits or relationship, there isn't consensus on what it is."
You Can Feel It
This one is probably a no-brainer; when someone is attracted to you, they want to touch you. Touch releases the bonding hormone oxytocin. So, it is an instinctive way of trying to strengthen your connection. However, not all touches mean the same thing.