If you feel a bit awkward staring into someone else's eyes, try this little trick: Draw an imaginary inverted triangle on the other person's face around their eyes and mouth. During the conversation, change your gaze every five to 10 seconds from one point on the triangle to another.
Simply looking at a woman directly, while also smiling, makes you appear more attractive to her. The most attractive face to show a woman is one with direct eye contact, a relaxed face (don't show tension, especially in your jaw), and an easy smile. If a woman meets your eyes, don't be the first one to look away.
If a girl avoids eye contact with you, it can indicate that she's interested in you or not. Also, it might mean that she avoids eye contact generally with people or doesn't want a conversation with you. Regardless of the reason, checking her body language and talking to her might tell you why she avoids eye contact.
If she looks at you and then instantly turns away, it may be because she is shy or doesn't want to get caught looking at you. If she looks back at you and smiles, that's an invitation for you to go introduce yourself.
Prolonged eye contact can “increase attraction and passion in individuals,” psychologist Rachel MacLynn told Newsweek. Relationship expert Tina Wilson also reiterated this point to the publication, saying, “Holding a gaze with someone you are interested in can create a powerful connection and helps to build trust.”
Research suggests there's a good scientific reason why some of us struggle to look someone in the eye and hold a conversation with them. It turns out we're not just awkward, our brains actually can't handle the tasks of thinking of the right words and focussing on a face at the same time.
When you spend time with someone and share vulnerabilities, it's easy to develop feelings of closeness and attraction. These positive feelings can develop into a crush, even when the other person is romantically unavailable. Traits such as kindness, intelligence, and a great sense of humor can fuel a crush.
Things You Should Know. Catching her staring at you is the biggest sign she has a crush. Look for other telltale cues like blushing, giggling, or making excuses to be together. Listen carefully to what she says—if she asks you about your crushes or talks about how she wants a boyfriend, she's dropping you some hints.
Girls who do this will stare at you to get your attention but also glance at the person they're trying to provoke and see if they've noticed. If you think a girl might just be trying to make someone else jealous, listen to your instincts and steer clear of her!
If she avoids or finds excuses to get out of time that you would otherwise share together, she probably doesn't like you. If she was thinking about how she liked you she would probably be making excuses to be around you more, not the other way around.
This might well just be shyness. Usually someone will allow themself to establish mutual eye contact when they are attracted to someone, but for shy people, they will avoid this. You can only find out for sure by talking to her, but you must do so in a neutral, non-threatening or confrontational way.
“If she's nodding and smiling, but not really contributing to the conversation, she's just being polite,” says Tessina. “If she's leaning back and not really engaging you, she's just being polite. If she's glancing around, she's just being polite.”
Researchers suggest, "women prefer muscles that are hard to build to be larger than muscles that are easier to build." Interestingly, men's ratings of size preferences were larger than women's. In other words, men thought bigger muscles were better, while women didn't have quite the same preferences.
