Tell him why you two can't see each other anymore.
Let him know that you need him to stop playing games and commit or else you're through. You might say something like: “I want to be exclusive, and you're not ready for that. I don't think we can be in a relationship anymore.”
Keep a player interested by making them feel like they never know exactly what to expect from you. Challenge them, prove them wrong, and don't let them “teach” you how to do everything (even small things, like playing pool or mini-golfing).
Just by chatting or laughing with other guys, you'll be showing him that you don't need him. Don't look over at the player to make sure that he sees you having a great time. He shouldn't even consider that you're trying to get his attention by ignoring him.
The best thing to do when you realize someone is playing mind games with you is to bless them with love, stop communicating, and move on with your life. Manipulators have poor personal boundaries and don't have your best interests at heart. They've developed negative coping mechanisms and probably won't ever change.
How do you stop people playing mind games with you?
The best way to deal with mind games is simply to rise above them. You should avoid trying to 'beat them at their own game', as doing so can actually end up with both of you getting hurt.
Players often appear to suddenly lose interest, leaving you to chase after them. If you're trying to schedule every date and the other person still says they're "busy" more often than not, you might be dealing with a player.
A player can fall in love. So, before you write the relationship off completely, remember that their nonchalant attitude towards partners may be due to a past hurt or trauma. The player mentality is often a defense mechanism where it is easier to accumulate many informal relationships rather than one deep one.
However, one of the signs a player likes you is that they start to open up to you. They may start sharing their plans, dreams, aspirations, and fears with you. They won't be afraid to be vulnerable with you – because they are sure of your loyalty.
Don't Get Too Emotional. Sometimes, it's difficult or impossible to avoid them. ...
Set Boundaries. Another way to respond to online toxicity is to engage in a dialogue to set boundaries, especially when a person doesn't stop, no matter what you do. ...
If a guy is playing with your feelings, you are emotionally involved with him, but he is not emotionally involved with you. In this situation, he doesn't want the same thing you want out of the relationship, but he is not honest about his intentions and instead is stringing you on.
Red flags in a relationship include excessive jealousy and frequent lying. You should also be wary of a partner who frequently criticizes you or puts you down. Another major red flag is an unwillingness to compromise — relationships shouldn't be one-sided.
Most men play games because they want to be in control of the current situation and the relationship. By manipulating you, he can ensure that he is always on top and that his needs are met first. This behavior is often driven by insecurity or a need to always be in control.
Listen to your instincts. Stop looking the other way and pretending you don't see red flags. ...
Ending a relationship (serious, casual sex) still takes healing. People always think that once a person leaves a bad situation they are jumping for joy. ...
Next time think before giving your precious body to anyone.
