You were the first thing I thought of when I woke up. You'll never guess what you were doing in my dream last night… Thinking about last night and can't stop grinning like an idiot. There's an empty spot next to me waiting for you to fill it.
Flirting can be subtle and indirect, so sometimes it's hard to decipher whether or not someone is expressing interest. Clues to spot flirting are body language, such as smiling, leaning forward, and touching, and verbal cues such as compliments or references to being available.
Ask A Leading Question. Opening the conversation with a question can be a good strategy, but asking something they'll definitely know the answer to is even better. ...
If the guy is your friend, your crush, or someone you've been chatting with on a dating app, there's a good chance he's flirting with you—or at least being friendly. If you're pretty sure he's flirting and you want to return the sentiment, shoot back a message with a similar tone.
FLIRTY FIRST TEXT: “I see that you're into [hobby/interest]. What do you love most about it?” WHY IT'S GOOD: This is a great first message on a dating-app because everyone's favorite subject is themselves. We all love to talk about our passions and hobbies, so it's very likely to kick-start a stimulating conversation.
I think I see you, but it might be some other incredibly attractive person. I can't stop smiling thinking about last night. Nobody gets me like you do. Now that I've officially texted you, I'm going to be staring at my phone, nervously waiting for it to beep.
They're goofing around with you. In a flirty message, the ? emoji can carry the same weight as ? and ?. So if they start sending a bunch of ? in a row, they're probably trying to keep things light, playful, and flirty.
“Polite flirts can end up taking forever to get a message across because they're so cautious. They're respectful, they're hands-off, and they avoid doing anything that's too aggressive or suggestive,” Hall said. Polite flirts were 10 percent more likely to use the Internet to find their last flame, FSI data showed.
Smiling or winking at someone. Laughing or giggling with someone in a good way. Teasing someone in a lighthearted way. Moving closer to someone or leaning in to talk with them. Listening intently (e.g. nodding, looking into someone's eyes, etc.)
