What do I do when I feel like my partner doesn't care? You can have an honest conversation with your partner and know why they don't care about you. If he is going through a tough time, you may offer to help them out. You may mutually initiate a breakup or divorce if they are done with the relationship.
If someone makes you feel worthless or constantly criticizes you, it's an obvious sign that they don't value you. Maybe they were made to believe that they were worthless themselves and now they're doing the same thing to other people – to you. That's no excuse.
If someone values you, they'll make time and space for you in their life. They'll text you back in a timely fashion. They'll respect you when you're busy or need to rest. Overall, they show up to meetings together on time or close to it (or communicate they'll be late).
It's totally ok to take the initiative and text him if you want to get together, hang out, or go out on a date. Initiating conversation is also a good way to show him that you're interested and don't have to wait for him to make the first move.
Briefly describe what happened that felt hurtful or disrespectful. Say, “When I was talking, you (said or did this).” Don't go into a long story about what occurred or try to soften the blow by saying you know they didn't mean to be offensive. One sentence that describes your experience of their behavior is enough.
Many people feel a sense of grief for the person and relationship they lost. Your significant other might very well experience intense sadness after you walk away as he grieves for what you had together. Being dumped can also cause him to question his self-worth and lower his self-esteem. He may miss you.
One of the obvious reasons why a guy may ignore or act disinterested in you is because he feels you are too good for him. He lacks the confidence to approach you or share his feelings with you, fearing you might reject him. He feels that sharing his true feelings might ruin your friendship with him.
How long does it take a man to realize he hurt you?
Men often go through an emotional state called “Dumpers Remorse” after the woman finally goes away. This state hits after one month to six weeks after the man passes through the initial happy phase after a breakup. He starts to give away signs he knows he messed up the whole thing from that time.