If a man has serious intentions, he becomes reliable. Bailing and flaking is not an option. Also, he will not shy away from making future plans with you, like vacations together for example.
You need to find out first if he is putting in no effort because he is losing interest, or he genuinely has a lot of other things going on in his life that are taking more of his time. It is important to open up a conversation and check in with him to see how things are going with him and if anything is bothering him.
As emotions such as fear and sadness are generally not as accepted, men might try to hide these from themselves and those around them. They feel that they should be able to cope on their own. Individuals might try to cope with 'negative' emotions in one or more of the following ways: Withdrawing from family and friends.
People tend to naturally lean toward people they like in conversation, according to Battle. If the guy you like tends to lean his face in closer to yours while he's talking to you or listening to you talk, that's a good sign that he might be into you.
In a relationship, one of the signs he doesn't value you is if he only calls when he doesn't have anything else happening. If he valued you, you would feel like you meant something in his life, appreciated, cared for, a sense of respect. You wouldn't be brushed to the side when a better opportunity comes along.
How do you know if someone is taking advantage of you?
They're constantly asking you to do favors for them
Sure, friends with healthy relationships will do favors for one another, but if it's one sided and the person is constantly asking you to go out of your way for them, they're taking advantage of you — and wasting your time.
A Player – A guy, a man, that is seeing multiple people (with or without you knowing about it) that doesn't have consideration towards your feelings, and will tell you anything it takes to 'play' you into bed. I.e he's not looking for commitment, but will play games to make you think he is.
According to one report, the male stress response can be characterized as “fight-or-flight.” When men are faced with a stressful situation, their bodies release hormones that prompt them to either stay and confront the problem, or to run away and avoid it.
Signs he's losing interest could actually be signs he's struggling with his family, his mental health, his career, his goals, or other things that are unrelated to you. If you're worried about maintaining a healthy relationship, try to communicate your fears and needs before blaming or making any assumptions.
