The best way for a Scorpio to mend a broken heart is to dive into the depths of their soul, confront their fears, and allow themselves to fully process their darker emotions.
A broken-hearted Scorpion is likely to hold contempt towards and bitterness for the person who, in their eyes, betrayed them. The breakup is probably going to hurt them and leave them completely devastated. Even the kindest Scorpio is most likely to struggle in forgetting their ex if you betray their trust.
Since Scorpios go all-in, they tend to get hurt when their partner doesn't do the same. Cheating and dishonesty are obviously huge no-no's. They'll also get upset if their partner doesn't open up to them emotionally.
Breaking Up Is Never Closure For Scorpio
While some Zodiac signs look at breaking up as a closure, and it gives them peace of mind, Scorpio sees it as a lost battle. They like to control and hold the ropes in their hands, so by letting go, it is not freedom they find, but one more reason to stay awake at night.
People of this sign are also often very jealous and possessive. If you've recently broken up with a Scorpio male, he may be feeling all of those things. Ignoring a Scorpio man after a break up may not be easy, but it could be the best way to get his attention.
The ability to regenerate and rise from the ashes requires symbolic death, but that doesn't mean breakups are easy for Scorpios. In fact, they have an extremely difficult time letting go. Whether a Scorpio initiates or not, they always feel jilted after a breakup.
Scorpios occupy two camps when it comes to ex partners; abject banishment or covert tabs, casting them out or keeping them just close enough to pull back in with a crafty claw if they sense that their ex is happy, sexually fulfilled or has significantly cut back on their pining.
If you have broken their trust, even the sweetest Scorpio will likely have a hard time forgetting–and they will get back at you in the end. A Scorpio will never forgive or forget when someone wrongs them and since they have immense patience, they can wait a long, long time before striking in revenge.
Scorpio's intensity is what makes them the lovable, brooding water signs that they are. Because they invest so much into their relationships, you can bet that they don't give up easily. Known to be a little skeptical and weary, it takes a lot to earn a Scorpios heart and trust.
They're intense and deeply emotional by nature. If they could be with their soulmate forever, they would. Because Scorpios invest so much of themselves into their relationship, they don't take breakups lightly. Once a Scorpio decides they're done with a relationship, they tend to end it and never look back.
Scorpios go through a rebirth when they go through a breakup. Scorpios take their commitments seriously, and if they have gotten to a point where they were able to be vulnerable with someone and they showed them a part of themselves they don't show many people, then they will take their time in letting go.
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So, first love is all about trust and once broken, they find it very difficult to trust anyone else in love again, as a result of which their first love becomes unforgettable and can haunt them for a long long time.
Scorpio: Let them control the situation
You are best off not getting in the way. Don't interrupt their thoughts or choose the course of action, but show your solidarity by showing up and being there for them, whatever they choose to do.
Scorpios also have the tendency of holding onto a grudge forever. Although they might seem unreasonable, they are just protecting their heart from anything bad. They love fiercely, but if they get into a nasty argument, their immediate response is to cut you off.
A toxic trait of Scorpio – Manipulation
And Pluto is an obsessive and controlling planet. As a result, Scorpio will try to stay on top of everything, their relationships in particular. As a partner, Scorpios demand loyalty. They fear being hurt and can't bear to be in the unknown.
Taking the lead to ask you out, opening up about himself, being protective and possessive, and making intense eye contact are some signs that a Scorpio man loves you. If ignored, they tend to distance themselves from their crush and never express their emotions.
If they fear their partner isn't equally invested in the relationship, they can become paranoid and possessive. Scorpios may even create conflict to test their lover's devotion, toxic behavior that often backfires.
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They usually will not express their anger but if you really hurt them, then be prepared as they may be plotting a revenge against you. If you think you can make amends with them after you hurt them, you are wrong. If you hover around them when they are angry, it will only cast them further away.
Scorpios take advantage of coercion and emotional abuse for they feel powerful when their spouse feels less self-sufficient and at times more dependent on his Scorpio wife. The partner must learn to spot such manipulative traits and leave the relationship before it gets more toxic.
They're intense and deeply emotional by nature. If they could be with their soulmate forever, they would. Because Scorpios invest so much of themselves into their relationship, they don't take breakups lightly. Once a Scorpio decides they're done with a relationship, they tend to end it and never look back.
Scorpio, once heartbroken and betrayed, will be grieving for long- turning their negativity solemnly into a sum of vengeance. Hence, once you betray a Scorpio, you have no existence in their lives till eternity. The memory of the person will forever be marked and tainted as a subject of avoidance and disgrace.
Mars is what we're willing to fight for! Being ruled by Mars makes Scorpios determined, energetic and occasionally cutthroat in pursuit of their goals. Whether seducing a lover or winning an argument, Mars gets what it wants.
Give him some space.
Scorpios are usually pretty independent, and he might not appreciate it if you get clingy or overbearing. Instead, take advantage of the nights he wants to spend alone by going out and doing your own thing. There's a good chance that he'll realize that he misses you while you're out on your own.