First things first, let's address the bizarre question that some people have: do introverts fall in love? Yes, yes they do. Just because they're not the best at showing it doesn't mean they don't fall in love. Now, it's important to understand that Introverts are great at having deep conversations.
They actually don't flirt
The first clue to finding out if an introvert is flirting with you is that they won't flirt with you in an obvious way. They'll try to make a good conversation while you're around them and make sure that you have a good time, but that's it.
Introverts often have a harder time asking people out on dates because they tend to be more reserved and introspective, and may not feel as comfortable putting themselves out there. This can be especially true with dating, as the fear of rejection can be intimidating for anyone.
Discussion. Consistent with our original hypothesis, extraversion was a significant predictor of singlehood status, with introverted being more likely than extroverted people to be involuntarily single and to experience longer spells of singlehood.
Introverts want a mind-to-mind connection where you share your inner world with them including what makes you tick. You also could try asking your partner questions. Many introverts will share their thoughts and feelings in response to questions rather than volunteering information. So, be patient and ask your partner.
If you notice the introvert becoming more affectionate, it means the person likes you. Once an introvert shows affection, the person trusts you and is comfortable around you. If an introvert makes a move, that's a sure sign the person likes you. They tend to hang back, observe and not be the first to reach out.
Depending on each individual introvert's willingness to speak on the phone, taking your call or calling you of their own accord can also be a sign of affection. It's a sign that they actually enjoy speaking with you when they can, even if the phone isn't preferable to a face-to-face conversation.
Introverted men love an open, no-pressure vibe.
They love the feeling of no-pressure spaciousness when it comes to both social and romantic interactions. They love hanging out with their buddies, all of them laughing without a care in the world.
This means talking in terms of the other person's interests and listening to them when they talk about themselves. This shows you're interested in their values, attitudes, experiences, and beliefs. You're interested in who they are as a person, which can be a real turn-on, especially to a fellow introvert or HSP.
Introverts feel fiercely and love deeply. They are intense. They have supersonic senses and can experience sex with every molecule in their bodies. If you're able to score a connection with an introvert you'll be able to score a home run in the sack.
Introverts are generally more attuned to expressing love in nonverbal ways and don't tolerate sentimentality. They also need more time to express their affection, so patience is very important at the beginning of the relationship.
By extension, introverts typically prefer more submissive social roles, and tend to be less impulsive.
An introvert who is attracted to you may: Start appearing around you more often. Make eye contact frequently. Gradually reveal more and more personal thoughts and feelings.
Most introverted people tend to have a small group of people they focus all their love and attention on, rather than spreading it across countless acquaintances. That means you're going to get a much higher proportion of our energy and attention (and therefore love) than with someone who's more of a social butterfly.
We take things slowly.
Introverts tend to open up to new people more slowly than extroverts. We may be slower to make a move, like asking you out or getting physical. Also, we may be slower to reach relationship milestones, like saying “I love you” for the first time or proposing.
Again, introverts tend to be somewhat shy and need connection with their partner. Dr. Brown also reveals that an introvert needs a partner who won't make assumptions. A great forever person for an introverted personality would be someone who will ask before jumping to conclusions.
Sexually. Studies show that extroverts get laid more often than introverts (sorry, shy guys). The data suggests extroverted men have sex 5.5 times a month, while introverted men only get it on 3 times per month.
Of the many strengths of introverts, one is that they tend to create profound and significant relationships with those closest to them. They also prefer to interact with people on a one-on-one basis rather than in a large group setting.