When approaching an introverted woman, you want to be calm and respectful. Don't overly bombard her with big grins and excited behavior. Don't talk louder than is necessary. For instance, if you are at someone's party or get together, you mustn't speak at a high volume if there is low or minimal background noise.
Polite flirts don't need to be the center of attention. In social interactions, they would prefer things to be a bit more controlled and formal.” That sounds a lot like me. The “sincere” style is also well suited for introverts. We prefer conversing about meaningful topics instead of making idle chitchat.
Ask her about what she likes, hobbies, etc. But don't push her to answer. “I wanted to send you a really cool text to express one of my favorite things about you but there isn't an emoticon for comfortable quiet companionship.”
Although there are times when introverts enjoy the rush of physical affection, other times, when they are drained or tired, touch can feel invasive and overstimulating. On the other hand, extroverts gain energy when they are close to others, so physical contact with their partner is a pick-me-up.
Invite them to stuff.
Studies show that introverts tend to feel happier overall when they step out of their comfort zone and socialize from time to time. Make an effort to include the introvert in your life by inviting them to socialize, even if you don't think they'll say yes.
One of the main reasons some introverts don't like texting is because they don't like small talk — and that includes small talk through texting. When I'm talking to someone about a deep topic or something I'm passionate about, then texting doesn't feel like a burden.
Casual sex is sometimes a no-go.
In other words, according to Dembling, introverts “like to jump into the deep end.” Rather than devoting their time and social energy to someone they're never going to see again, introverts commonly favor being around those they've cultivated an intimate, personal relationship with.
Ask them questions and know what they like:
Asking questions in a light-hearted manner might help them to get to open up and talk about what they like. Noticing as to what they like to talk about at length could be of help too. You could thereafter ask questions related to topics that you found interested them.
There's nothing more attractive than a person who is emotionally present. Introverts make purposeful relationships because they deliberately engage their feelings when mingling with people. They think, listen, speak, and take actions with their emotions intact.
Big Crowds
Swarms of strangers can be a fear for many people for various reasons, but it is particularly common for anxious introverts. Introverts gather their energy from being alone, but that doesn't mean the “all alone in a crowd of people” thing always works.
Are introverts clingy? Introversion isn't a sign of clinginess either way, explains Aaron. An introverted person can be clingy or prefer distance, same as any non-introverted person.
Reach out to them, but don't be pushy.
When you talk to an Introvert to ask them why they're ignoring you, do so with the utmost respect for their time and attention. Because Introverts prefer written communication, I'd suggest a text message or email. Don't demand anything. Ask if anything is bothering them.
Independence. Unique and fiercely independent, introverts are more inclined to let their own inner resources guide them than follow the crowd. We do our best work — and are our happiest — when we have the freedom to explore ideas, spend time alone, and be self-directed and independent.
If an introvert is jealous, they are more naturally inclined to internalize the green monster. Instead of being outward and upfront about it, they may admire you from afar and copy your work or lifestyle. Ludwig states that extreme copying reveals the individual's low self-esteem and inferiority complex.
If they are closing that personal gap, they think of you as someone special. Physical touch is even more telling. Not only is this introvert close to you, proximity-wise, but they are also creating a physical connection between you two, as well.
They rarely make the first move
Introverts prefer it when they hold the reins in a conversation, but it's counterintuitive for them when they start the conversation. They function better when they focus on creative and thoughtful pursuits rather than social interactions with strangers or people they hardly know.
Introverts are not the type to wear their hearts on their sleeves. Instead, we often have our guard up, and it can take a lot of one-on-one time for us to finally let down those walls. This can make dating difficult, especially when the other person wants to know more than we're willing to share.