How do you make a guy go crazy for you without talking?
You can even use eye contact to drive him crazy when you're standing on opposite sides of the room. Make eye contact with him, and after holding it for a few moments, drop your gaze. Slowly drag your eyes back up to meet his again, keeping a coy or flirty smile on your face as you do.
“Making eye contact and holding it just a few seconds longer than a casual glance causes him to take notice of you and start to wonder what you may have meant by that,” says Lieberman. “It's the cool 'silent flirt' that can make him want to know more.”
How do you attract a guy who is not interested in you?
Make eye contact with him.
As you meet his gaze, give a small smile before looking away. Just a brief moment of eye contact could be enough to make him interested in you too. Be careful not to stare at him so long that he gets uncomfortable. A quick glance is usually enough to convey that you want him to talk to you.
Men are attracted to women who are physically attractive, and have a healthy body image. A man wants his woman to be happy with her own body, so he won't be jealous or insecure about it. He wants her to love herself as much as he does. The best way for a woman to do that is by eating well and exercising regularly.
While it might not seem like the nicest option, there are several reasons these men may be ignoring women: He's mad at himself for misreading her signals. He's mad at her for giving mixed signals or acting like she was interested. It hurts him to spend time with her, knowing they can't have the relationship he wants.
They may be attracted to you, but they're not interested enough to put effort into seeing you. Or they may only be interested in a hook up relationship. If deep down you want something more, it's better to move on and not go down that path.
We often seek male validation in order to feel better about ourselves or to secure our place in a social hierarchy, such as at work or within a friend group. Resist the desire for male validation by bolstering your own self-esteem. Make a list of things you like about yourself and go after your dreams and goals.
When you meet his eyes, you're showing him that you noticed him. Hold his gaze for 1-3 seconds, then glance away. This is a subtle way to flirt without speaking. Don't make eye contact for longer than 1-3 seconds because he might feel like you're staring.
Keep your gaze on the horizon while walking. Doing so makes you appear more approachable and sociable.
Don't be afraid to be expressive through your eyes. Widening them in surprise, or narrowing them when you're skeptical, shows that you're engaged and paying attention.
Ignoring a guy is one of the surefire ways to get his attention, as he would at most times try to win your attention back. However, ignoring alone doesn't put you at the forefront of his thoughts and make you desirable.
He might be avoiding eye contact if he's attracted to you or if he's working up the courage to ask you out. He might also be avoiding eye contact if he's in a bad mood or feels guilty about something. Or, not making eye contact might just be a normal part of his personality.
