"Because Virgo focuses so much on fixing any potential problems, it can really break their heart if their partner doesn't make them aware of any problems and/or just blindsides them with a breakup," Monahan says.
At first, Virgos will try to augment their behavior and improve their outlook regarding the breakup. Over time, they'll opt to seek out revenge on their ex if they feel gaslighted by the responses given to them during the demise of the relationship.
Passion and the notion of a 'perfect' connection are common motivators in Virgo relationships. And they could end up sad when their inflated expectations cause them harm. These earth signs struggle to let go after a breakup since they are highly emotional and vulnerable.
Weaknesses: Potential challenges for a Virgo are obsessiveness, self-critique, and perfectionism.
When a conversation is unavoidable, Virgos are extremely apologetic and quick to alleviate the tension by assuming total and complete responsibility, proclaiming some variation of "It's not you, it's me." When a breakup takes a Virgo by surprise, on the other hand, these earth signs find it hard to let go.
Virgos breakup style relies on consistency and patterns. If a Virgo notices their partner acting out of the norm and engaging in activities that don't line up with their values and their lifestyle, Virgos will notice and break things off.
Virgo are routine and habit driven. They like things to 'be a certain way' — usually their way. According to Furiate, that means Virgo can be knit-picky towards flaws in others, have a strong need to know all the details before doing something, and can be filthy slobs when overwhelmed by too many details.
Virgos are always striving for perfection. So the thing that makes them feel most insecure is the fear of being criticized. Because of that, they might end up becoming their own biggest critic.
Virgos are emotionally distant and difficult to read.
Virgos keep their emotions to themselves for fear of being vulnerable and getting hurt. They will share their feelings once they're comfortable with you. The best thing you can do is give them time to get to know you.
VIRGO. Virgos know exactly what they want from a relationship. But, when it comes to an end, they try and learn from their mistakes to avoid any kind problems. They do not give up easily which is why they do not hesitate in giving their partners a second chance even if they are sensing a few bad vibes.
He shows love through service and practical actions, not words or sex. Dutiful Virgo will show his love through his actions of help and service to you. If he comes and cleans your room, it's because he cares about you and is trying to improve your life.
Virgos have a high tolerance for being ignored.
Introverted and independent, they may not even notice you're ignoring them. They'll go about their day as if nothing's the matter—and they're not even trying to be mean! This could be a sign that you're not as close to them as you thought.
VIRGO: When sad, Virgos become compulsive. They don't prefer to invest their time in depression and sadness and hence, become unresponsive in the face of sadness. But when Virgos become angry, they become blunt and cruel and can disagree with everything you say.
'" Virgos hate feeling like they've made a mistake, so it's not too common for them to regret a breakup. But as astrologer Tara Redfield tells Bustle, the only time a Virgo will have regrets is if they were truly in love. If that's the case, their over-analytical mind won't ever let them forget the one that got away.
If you're someone that's particularly successful in your field of work, your Virgo friends are undoubtedly green with envy. The biggest problem with Virgos is that they want everything around them to feel safe and secure, and they think that a good job is the ultimate way to guarantee this.
Virgo is a sign that struggles with envy in general. It's because they are so hard on themselves due to their highly critical nature. This nature can extend into their relationships as well, but can manifest itself in jealousy. That's because this sign struggles with being more than a bit pessimistic.
As critical thinkers, Virgos can also be chronic over-thinkers. Their minds are so busy all the time, constantly thinking about things they need to do or how they can get ahead on their next project. This means they also overthink emotions and relationships.
Virgos are normally very patient. They will usually let go of small things, and not get very angry easily. Only major things can trigger a Virgo. They could take some time to process their anger but when trust is lost with Virgos, you will have to work really hard to win it back.
Virgos hold grudges for months, but only if they feel it is necessary. They will always try to work it out with you. But if it doesn't seem possible, they will stop talking to you. They can get over most things quickly, but that depends on whether the other person apologizes sincerely or not.
High Virgo Compatibility: Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer. The list of star signs that can make a good match isn't short for Virgo. Because they're caring, they tend to be good partners for everyone. But there are a few signs they're most compatible with, which are Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, and Cancer.
Since Virgo is willing to work, there is immense potential to make it in any cosmic connection. While earth and water signs are typically ideal matches for Virgo, air signs and fire signs might be more challenging. Virgo may find that their easier matches are with fellow earth signs, Capricorn and Taurus.
Virgo: Stops Working With You
But, when a Virgo falls out of love, their passiveness may lead to them staying in a relationship longer than they want. If your Virgo suddenly isn't working toward something with you, like committing to a new show to watch, an exercise plan, or budget, that is a red flag.
Virgo chooses rare and distinct personalities when it comes to love and romance and hence, they are more attracted to Pisces. Both Pisces, and Virgo form a great pair in terms of romance and marriage.