As the social butterflies of the zodiac, Gemini recover through storytelling, editing their breakup drama into sad and hilarious tales to share over drinks. While some might label this "kiss and tell" behavior, a Gemini calls it healing.
A Gemini after a breakup typically has two sides, just as how they are portrayed by the twins. One side will go out and enjoy themselves, while the other will reflect on the union and lament the things they did that contributed to its downfall.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
They have no problem getting out there and meeting new people, so it's easy for them to quickly move on after a breakup. According to Sesay, Geminis love to bounce around from place to place, meeting different people, and don't like to commit to just one potential partner.
"Often Geminis take their ex back when they feel a deep mental connection with them that they have yet to make with someone else," she says.
You could find a Gemini circling around again, however, as Gemini is the type to text an ex if they feel like it because they quite literally don't care about appearances. If they think it, they feel it, and they often are more impulsive in love. Overall, Gemini gets over a breakup by letting their freak flag fly.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
This can hurt Gemini who'll feel like their partner doesn't trust them. According to Lang, Gemini's mutable nature and Scorpio's fixed one also makes this a challenging pair. “Gemini tends to want to move past conflicts quickly, while Scorpio can hold on,” she says.
Geminis shut people out when they're hurt.
His talkative and lively personality can suddenly dim after an argument or disagreement. This is how he copes, bottling up his feelings until he can't close the lid anymore.
A Gemini with a Heartbreak. Since a Gemini native loves to live in the present, they do not let break-ups of a heartbreak bring them down. Being really good communicators, a Gemini always makes his/her thoughts heard, thereby leaving very little scope for miscommunication.
Geminis are likely to fall out of love and call it quits sooner than you think. Geminis can be extremely unpredictable when it comes to love and relationships. They may simply tell you that they don't love you anymore even if your relationship is as young as two weeks.
Gemini. Your biggest turn-on includes experimenting different sexual positions and role-play.
On the plus side, when Gemini finds themselves missing their ex, they will reach out. In fact, astrologer Clarisse Monahan tells Bustle, Gemini is one sign that's likely to stay friends with an ex.
Since Geminis aren't shy about socializing and making new friends, it's simple for them to rapidly bounce back after a heartbreak. They prefer to be in the present and avoid letting the lasting effects of a breakup hold them back in life.
When they're bubbly and happy, they tell you about it. They rely on words as a way to relate to people, so when they're silent, something is wrong. It's not that they can't relate anymore, they just don't want to. This is a sign of a Gemini's broken heart.
"Geminis need constant stimulation," explains Montúfar. So their eyes will instantly light up when they spot someone new who seems fun and cool to talk to. Sounds simple, but Geminis want to feel like they're a part of something and the best way to do that is by talking.
As an air sign, Geminis have a strong mental connection with the other air signs, such as Aquarius and Libra. Aquarius is a good long-term match, both sexually and romantically. These passionate, adventurous signs can be "electric" together, Stellas says.
Gemini is a pretty loyal zodiac, especially in a long-term relationship. Once a Gemini finds a reliable partner or friend, they become completely devoted and committed.
Gemini. You're a communicator through and through, and that tracks in how you tend to apologize, too. "Before they say, 'I'm sorry,' Geminis want to talk things out to understand the whole story of what happened, what went wrong, and what recourse there is for their actions," says Lang.
A toxic trait of Gemini – Gossiping
Gemini is the king of gossip. They are wit and fast, and they pick up details like a magnet. Being social butterflies, they have access to all kinds of information. They know Lisa has a crush on the newcomer.
Gemini's plan evil revenge but they can also be very unpredictable. They might just give up on revenge randomly. They're usually the calmest and loving people but if you've hurt them, they know how to hold it in their hearts. They don't forgive easily and they will play dirty games to disempower you.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
They love indulging in self-pity and will cry their hearts out. They do it mostly for attention and will quiet down and shut you out once they have all your attention.
Gemini feel emotionally stuck and take time to accept the rejection. They take the rejection a bit too harshly which destroys their mental peace.
To put it simply, Geminis don't like to deal with stress. You probably internalize it, try to squash it and allow its chatter to echo inside of you. That inner chaos inevitably takes its toll, at which point you either shut people out or lash out, depending on how emotionally connected you feel to the stress' source.