As Urban Dictionary describes it, a soft girl is “nice to everyone” and “approachable” with an affinity for sweet-as-candy clothing and accessories. Cropped cardigans, slip dresses, pleated skirts, and bucket hats adorned with charming heart, cloud, or floral motifs are the staples of every soft girl's style “uniform.”
So what exactly is the soft girl aesthetic? The look is deliberately hyper feminine and kittenish. It celebrates all things girly – think frills, bows and pastels that draw inspiration from Bratz dolls, Y2K nostalgic fashion and beauty, manga comics and Kawaii culture (a.k.a, the culture of 'cuteness' in Japan).
Soft Girl or Softie describes a youth subculture that emerged among teenagers around mid-to late-2019. Soft girl is a fashion style, popular among some young women on social media, based on a deliberately cutesy, feminine look with a girly girl attitude.
A softy/softie: This is someone who may be emotional, and the type who cries at commercials for example. They may come across as soft or it may be a surprise that they are so emotional. This trait usually means that even the littlest thing can make them cry.
As Urban Dictionary describes it, a soft girl is “nice to everyone” and “approachable” with an affinity for sweet-as-candy clothing and accessories. Cropped cardigans, slip dresses, pleated skirts, and bucket hats adorned with charming heart, cloud, or floral motifs are the staples of every soft girl's style “uniform.”
If you're trying to look cute, wear cute clothes, like skirts or dresses instead of pants or shorts. Also, choose clothes in pastel colors or with floral patterns, which are super cute. Add a chunky ring or some bangles to complete your cute outfit. When it's time to do your makeup, go for a natural look.
There isn't a specific lifestyle attached to the soft girl aesthetic but there is a vibe of positivity, joy, colour, and female friendship. There is also a correlation with music that is happy, positive, and unapologetically feminine.
Most guys like "cute" if it's sincere or they think you like them. Men enjoy compliments on their looks and personality as much as women, even if they don't show it. If a guy is trying hard to impress you, he'll be extra weak in the knees when you call him cute because he'll feel like he's winning you over.
Things You Should Know. If a guy calls you cute, it means he thinks you're amazing, inside and out. He's attracted to both your appearance and your personality. If he frequently says you're cute and smiles or blushes when he does it, he's probably romantically interested in you.
What I mean by too soft is demonstrating behavior that results in being consistently less effective than what is otherwise possible—and needed—in performing responsibilities.
If you decide to buy live softies, keep them alive until you're ready to cook them. They can only survive in a refrigerator for 1-2 days at most. We recommend you buy them live the day you will cook them.
