Scientists in the US have found that modern man uses a smooch to pick up traces of estrogen in a woman's saliva and thus gauge her fertility. Anthropologist Helen Fisher of Rutgers University says that such behaviour may explain why men like wet kisses with more "tongue action".
"Men like sloppier kisses with more open mouth and that suggests to me that they are unconsciously trying to transfer testosterone to trigger the sex drive in women," said Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University in New Jersey. Kissing can certainly open the door to sex, Fisher said.
A sloppy kiss then (and we don't particularly care for the term) is an open-mouthed kiss without abandon and it often means you and your partner get up close and personal. It's a sign of 'intense energy and a good physical relationship'.
In her book, Sheril explained that men 'tend to express a preference for wet, sloppy, open-mouthed kisses' but noted that women can be fans of this type of kiss as well. However, just like the French kiss, two people can quickly learn they aren't compatible if one person enjoys sloppy kisses and the other doesn't.
In the short-term, men like kisses to be wet, while women do not. Psychologists hypothesize that males "perceive a greater wetness or salivary exchange during kissing as an index of the female's sexual arousal/receptivity, similar to the act of sexual intercourse," wrote Hughes.
You can feel his heart race.
You can also place your hand over his chest to check if his heart is pounding. If it feels like he's just gone out for a run, then your kiss puts his body into overdrive. You'll probably also notice that he's blushing or breathing a little more heavily.
One of the most passionate ways to kiss, a French kiss tops the list of kisses! An intimate and erotic move, it is surely to set your partner's mood for some romance. Start by tilting in and locking your partner's lips with yours. Remember to go with the flow, rushing through this divine moment can ruin the feel of it.
What makes it different from a French kiss is that it does not involve putting your tongue inside the mouth of your partner and purely concentrates on the lips. It can be gentle or violent depending upon the arousal of the pair involved in foreplay. Sucking of lips of the partner is a major feature of a smooch.
Now that you've started with the kissing, start to get a little bit aggressive by squeezing his lips with yours. This doesn't mean you have to crush his lips with force. Just use enough pressure to show him how passionate you are with the kissing bit.
“I can't wait to take this to the bedroom,” is what a guy thinks when he kisses you on the neck. French kissing, lip biting, and moving his hands all over your body during the kiss is another sign he's in it for something sexual. A kiss on the cheek, on the other hand, signals that he wants to be friends.
A selfish kisser. For you a kiss does not involve any kind of physical thing at all. You are usually relaxed and do not make much of it and that is a good thing but because you rarely change your style of kissing it can hamper your pleasure. You should think of your partner more often.
-Overall men prefer wetter kisses with more tongue than do women. -Both sexes preferred more tongue with long-term partners. -Men are more than twice as likely to have sex with a bad kisser than are women.
Have you ever wondered what constitutes a bad kiss? Whilst bad breath, a darting tongue and a wet sloppy kiss are rated as the biggest kissing turn-offs according to science, it might also be your smell, taste or even your pheromones that's causing the problem.
A good kisser knows how to get in tune with what the other person is doing and stay in sync to their movements and vibe. So if you feel like you're well-suited to your kissing partner's style, then you're all set.
The wet kiss is an open-mouthed kiss that can involve as little or as much tongue as you and your partner want. These kisses are typically reserved for passionate embraces and indicate desire for your partner.
French kiss is an intense and passionate kiss on the lips. This also includes a lot of tongue-play and is shared by two partners who are deeply attracted or infatuated with each other. This kiss is truly one of a kind, as it leaves both quite breathless and wanting for more.
Do you bite your partner's lips while kissing? Don't be surprised because it's quite a common practice. According to Kamasutra, it's a sign of passion and increases blood flow which in turn helps a person to get aroused. If you do so, you are a naughty lover who knows well how to excite a partner.
Her face should be treated with tenderness and reverence. While her clothes are still on, one of the most intimate places you can lay some kisses is along her collarbone. A woman's exposed collarbone is sexy and your mouth on it makes her think of your mouth on more private parts of her body.
He compliments you a lot
According to studies, after kissing a woman, a man sees them as more attractive. That is if the kiss went well. So, if he compliments you a lot after kissing you, that is a good sign that he enjoyed the kiss.
A good kisser never does things that are awkward or forced. You could begin to gently explore his mouth, start kissing other body parts, wrap your arms around him, and slowly move your hands around his body. Try to sense his reception.
A long kiss releases dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, feel-good chemicals that will make him smile. A single smile produces endorphins, another hormone that lifts his mood. Endorphins also create a “feedback loop” that will make him smile over and over.
Let her know you're coming from a place of concern and wanting to make a good thing (the relationship aside from kissing/sex) better. Let her know that what is happening is preventing you from enjoying her kisses—and you so want to enjoy her kisses! Also, ask her explicitly what, specifically, she finds pleasurable.