They could be bored, or they may not be getting enough social interaction, physical activity or mental stimulation, which may make them act out. These problems are often lumped in with puppy separation anxiety but can be addressed with more exercise.
Dogs are a naturally social species and it's normal for them to stay close to their social group which is why they can become anxious when left alone. When a puppy is first separated from their mother and litter mates, their usual response will be to whine, whimper or bark while trying to get back to them.
Separation anxiety can happen at any time in a pup's life, so as much as you can do to prevent it, the easier it will be throughout their life to be alone when you need them to be. Mistakes new owners make that can actually promote separation anxiety in puppies!
Unfortunately, puppies don't just grow out of separation anxiety. If you leave it untreated, it will likely just get worse, and it certainly won't get any better! However, thankfully, it's not too difficult to treat and just takes a little TLC and training.
Generally, most puppies will start to settle between 6 - 12 months, but as mentioned above there are a few other factors that can impact puppy energy levels. Some might say that female dogs are calmer dogs due to the fact they mature quicker than males, however a more impactful factor to consider would be their breed.
Clinginess in dogs is often a learned behavior. Dogs learn this behavior from humans by the way we interact with them. If you always give your dog food when they follow you into the kitchen, or you pet them every time they lie next to you, you're teaching them that following you leads to some type of reward.
At 4 months old, a puppy can be left home alone for a maximum of 4 hours. To be safe, you might want to keep it at 3 hours alone. Make sure to give them lots of cuddles when you return.
They Need Some Attention
With an instinctual desire for companionship, your puppy may cry because they are lonely. Whether they have spent time in the crate or you were away working for the day, your little furry friend is telling you they require attention.
If they continue to cry for a long time, then there may well be something you need to help them with. If you do go and check, limit your time with them. Check if they need the toilet or if they are hurt, then settle your puppy again and leave. If they start up again, as hard as it may seem, leave them alone.
To start, change your routine before you leave. Try to make it less drawn out. For example, put your keys in your purse ahead of time and have your shoes ready to put on at the door. Dogs know the routine of leaving, and if it's drawn out, they may become increasingly anxious.
Boredom can cause bad behavior
Solitary dogs get bored, and bored dogs are often “naughty” dogs. If you don't keep them busy, they'll find something to do on their own—and you may not like their choices. They might start to chew things up, bark at and disturb the neighbors, or urinate and/or defecate in the house.
Separation anxiety is a common problem in dogs and is likely to become more common due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Dogs with separation anxiety tend to follow their owners around the house and become more anxious just before their owner leaves and especially once they've left, often showing the following signs: Barking.
Your dog has his reasons for acting out. Boredom, restlessness, fear, and separation anxiety are all common reasons that your dog might bark and whine while you're gone.
Teaching Alone Time
Begin by closing your puppy in the confinement area with a chew toy or other constructive activity, then quietly walk out of the room. Return immediately and reward them with praise and a treat. Repeat the process, slowly increasing how long you're away each time.
4-month-old puppy
At 4 months, your puppy is growing rapidly. By this time they're likely at least half of their adult weight—and their personality is blossoming. They're more independent, more curious, and more inclined to get into everything that's get-into-able.
House training your puppy is about consistency, patience, and positive reinforcement. The goal is to instill good habits and build a loving bond with your pet. It typically takes 4-6 months for a puppy to be fully house trained, but some puppies may take up to a year.
They learn social skills, and are ready for consistent human interaction. By the start of their second month of life, puppies are developing emotions. And at 6-8 weeks old, they start forming attachments to humans.
For most puppies, those frantic bursts of energy end between six months and a year. But you need to know some older dogs — especially high-energy breeds — can exhibit hyperactivity at any time but typically do so on days when they haven't gotten enough exercise.
Four To Six Months
Pups grow so quickly during this period you may notice changes every single day.
The most challenging time of raising a puppy is the adolescent period. Dogs become “teenagers” and seem to forget everything they have ever been taught. This period is individual to each dog, but it may begin when he's about eight months old and continue until he's two years old.
Stage 5: Adolescence (6 – 18 months) This can be the most difficult time during a puppy's development – adolescence. Your cute little puppy is becoming a teenager and will start producing hormones which may result in changes in behaviour.
Starting around four months, puppies can begin eating about three times a day, and after that, puppies will quickly graduate to twice-a-day feedings.