You feel loved and warm, and you can tell they do too. There are several reasons why they might do this including the simple fact that they love you and want to show you that. They also know you're a warm spot where they can feel safe and secure. It's a wondering bonding experience that is quite simply the cat's meow!
Basically, your cat wants your attention, and she wants it now. Recognizing that you'll be distracted by other things, such as the TV, another person or sleep, your fur baby knows that you can't ignore her if she stands on your torso and, in many cases, stares directly into your eyes.
Yes, you guessed it, they are simply in love with you. Laying on the chest is a pathway to expressing their love for you wholeheartedly. It is also their green flag towards you winning as a cat parent.
Scientists who study cat behavior call this distinctive paw action “kneading” and believe it to be a sign of a relaxed cat. My own cats knead before taking a nap near me. While they are kneading, they purr – one of them gets so relaxed, he sometimes drools. Kneading usually occurs near a favorite person.
No, your cat doesn't actually think you're the mama cat that birthed it. But cats show us a level of affection and respect that is very similar to the way they treat their mama cat. And this sweet fact flies in the face of anyone who thinks cats' “aloof” personality means they don't care about us.
Lying next to you, but not on you, doesn't mean your cat is not bonded to you. In fact, sleeping next to you means your cat trusts you enough to be in a vulnerable position while sleeping. Some cats are not comfortable sleeping on their cat parent because they prefer the security of a small buffer zone.
PetMD also points out that cats are territorial creatures. They claim their turf by marking it with their scent. So when they sleep on top of you, they're actually marking you—and your bed—as theirs. We should be flattered by this behavior, apparently.
The Nose Poke
Cats nose poke (gently touch their nose to the other's nose) only trusted friends, be they feline, human, canine, or equine.
"Cats and dogs likely perceive hormonal changes that occur with pregnancy due to their amazing sense of smell," says Dr Mornement. "Their acute sense of hearing also means they probably hear the baby's heartbeat in the later stages of pregnancy."
It's their way of saying, "Hey, I claim you as mine!" They transfer their scent onto you, almost like marking you as their own. Whether it's a full-body rub or just a gentle forehead or cheek nuzzle, cats are declaring their ownership and seeking your undivided attention.
A cat that lays down in front of you is asking for attention and usually cuddles! If your cat lays down and exposes its belly, it means it feels very safe and comfortable around you. Usually, cats do not want you to touch their belly, but to instead admire them.
All in all, even the most aloof and brooding cat will be able to pick up on your warmth and devotion. Whether they choose to admit it or not, they can sense when a person loves them (and hates them). So always make sure you're emitting good, kitty-positive vibes, and your cat will be sure to indulge in the lovefest.
Your cat may bump their head against you or rub their cheeks against you to show affection. This is a social behavior that is formed in kittenhood through headbutting other kittens and their mother. It is often an attempt to mark you with their scent to claim you as one of their own.
In general, cats understand that a hug is an expression of affection. Not all felines will tolerate being embraced, however. Just as we humans have our personal preferences, cats also have their own likes and dislikes. So some will allow themselves to be hugged, while others will not stand for your weird human ways.
"Sploot" is a slang term for the position pets take when they lay on their stomach with their legs stretched out behind them.
Sleeping near you
If your kitty likes to sleep near you - or even on you - this is an indication that they have total trust in you.
You're the favorite.
The reasons for this are varied, but generally speaking, it is the person who cares for them each day. This bond is important to your cat as they are social creatures that need affection and attention from their owner. By sleeping with you, it is another way for them to show their love.
Cats have the power to sense their owner's emotions. So, cats have the ability to feel whenever their owner is sad. Beyond sadness, domestic cats are also able to feel whenever their owner has switched moods and emotions.
Studies have shown that cats can recognise their owners, even after they've been apart from them for an extended period of time, but they don't rely on sight to identify us.
One of the most plausible and sweetest reasons why your cat “follows” you even into the bathroom is that he loves you. The cat wants to take advantage of every second of your presence and every possible opportunity to spend time with you! He adores you so much that he will follow you everywhere in the house.
To summarise, cats don't think about their day or how they feel. But they do think about previous situations they have encountered. For example, when your cat is chilling out, it's not thinking about anything in particular.
In that sense, cats know they have a strong connection with certain other animals (which we call cats), but they probably don't think to themselves, "Wow, I'm one of those!" or, "Hey look, I'm just like that!" It's more like, "Want to play with that one!" or, "Want to scare that one away!" But perhaps in a cat there is ...
Being picked up and held can make some cats nervous, as they are being restrained in your arms. This limits their options for escape if anything were to startle them. Cats are independent creatures, and although they often like to be up high, they like to choose their own perch and not be restrained whilst doing so.