Some ladies do not text first because they want you to initiate the contact yourself. They enjoy the thrill of being chased and at the center of their significant other's attention. As a result, they would lay back and allow the other person to always reach out to them first.
She texts you first
If she texts first, it shows she is devoting time to stay in touch with you. She will text you frequently and will not hesitate to do so, which shows a good chance of being interested in you. Also, she may find reasons to text you and share information with you to talk more and get to know you.
There is no universal rule on whether to wait for her to text or you be the one to text first. It is not rude to text a girl first, especially in that early phase after you just got her number.
There are 3 reasons why she never initiates contact: She has low Interest. She's genuinely busy. She's shy/uncomfortable.
She sends you short or one-word replies.
Remember, she's still responding to you when she doesn't have to, so she's still interested in texting you. Keep your cool and keep the conversation going. It could all be a way for her to find out how hard you'll work to try to win her over.
She is giving you frequent updates of what she is doing
In the same vein, if she is texting you frequently with what she is up to, then chances are she likes you. After all, she's trying to bring you into her life.
If a woman does not text back for weeks at a time, or days at a time several days in a row, it might be safe to assume that she is not interested in carrying your relationship further. After all, if she were interested, she would likely make an effort to stay in touch and get to know you more.
Well, there are a few different reasons for why this happens: She ended up getting a message from the guy she really wanted to text (the #1 guy on her radar) She lost interest and just didn't want to respond anymore. She got bored with the conversation.
She will test you by not texting back immediately or keeping from initiating a conversation. This is a sign that she wants to see how interested you are in talking to her. She wants to see if you are putting in the effort to reach out to her. Sometimes, she may play hard to get to see if you will stick around.
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You could flip it on her if you think she's playing games.
You might say: “Oh, sorry, I was busy too haha.” “Sorry for the late reply on my end too. I'm just so forgetful!”
If you still haven't heard back, put your phone back down and keep doing something fun to stay distracted. Try checking your phone at set points throughout the day to reply to messages so you're not stressing out waiting for a reply. For example, you might check your phone every 30 minutes.
She is never the one to initiate plans or conversations and never really seems interested in talking to you or investing in the relationship. She makes you feel ignored, sidelined and taken for granted. When a girl is playing you, she will manipulate you and will not let you know what she truly feels for you.
She won't agree to plans
If she responds consistently with “we'll see” or anything equally wishy washy, she might not be sure she wants to be with you that far into the future, Fleming says. Meanwhile, if she always wants to schedule stuff with you at the last minute, you might be her backup plan.
Even if a girl is playing hard to get, it still means she's interested in you. And if she is, she'll be sending out subtle signs that she likes you. It can be hard to tell if a girl is flirting, so carefully observe her body language for these common signs of flirting: She's constantly touching you.
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If she turns her body away from you, or leans back or away from you, it's a sign she may be uncomfortable. She keeps a barrier between you. If she always positions herself behind a chair or a table or holds her purse or backpack in front of her like a shield, she might not be interested in you.
“If they are spending less time with you, [are] going out with their friends, or are just 'busy' — [or if they are] less present when you are together, then boredom could be a root cause,” Lee says. When you're with someone new, everything about them is fascinating.