The single most important thing about a Scorpio in love is that they never love you half-heartedly. So they may continue to try to contact you after the breakup.
The ability to regenerate and rise from the ashes requires symbolic death, but that doesn't mean breakups are easy for Scorpios. In fact, they have an extremely difficult time letting go. Whether a Scorpio initiates or not, they always feel jilted after a breakup.
Scorpios occupy two camps when it comes to ex partners; abject banishment or covert tabs, casting them out or keeping them just close enough to pull back in with a crafty claw if they sense that their ex is happy, sexually fulfilled or has significantly cut back on their pining.
After a breakup, it's likely that the Scorpio man won't talk to you at all. He'll need space from you so that he can get over the breakup himself, and seeing you or speaking to you would hinder his healing. Or make him want to come back to you for the wrong reasons—simply because he misses being with you.
Your Scorpio man will begin to regret not being in your life as a result of this. More than any other sign, this one calls for seclusion since it is so overwhelming and intense.
Scorpios are passionate lovers. The way they care for their partners or the way they love is sincere and awe-inspiring. And maybe that's why they're always haunted by the memories of their ex-lovers.
Establish ground rules with your Scorpion
In the majority of instances, the no-contact rule is most effective when both parties are aware of and agree to it. In this way, your Scorpio man will not believe you are neglecting him or being unkind. Set up a phone or in-person meeting with him and inform him of your plans.
No matter what you are doing, if a Scorpio man is in love with you, he will pay attention to you every time you want to talk to him or are doing something. You never have to worry about him straying away from you or having wandering eyes. He will maintain eye contact whenever you are talking.
A broken-hearted Scorpion is likely to hold contempt towards and bitterness for the person who, in their eyes, betrayed them. The breakup is probably going to hurt them and leave them completely devastated. Even the kindest Scorpio is most likely to struggle in forgetting their ex if you betray their trust.
Toward the end when a Scorpio man is ready to end things, he'll get ready to move on. Once he's pulled the plug on your relationship, he simply won't stick around. There may be a brief explanation of his desire to leave you, but he won't attempt to console you for very long or stay in touch.
Scorpio: Disloyalty
Disloyalty is the biggest turn-off for Scorpios. Scorpios are deeply passionate and loyal people who expect their partners to be the same. They can sometimes come off as intense, but they are fiercely devoted to those they love.
For a Scorpio, it's extremely hard to deal with an inner turmoil. And when they feel that they have lost interest in you, they'll panic and become very defensive. They'll avoid confrontations but will also initiate unnecessary discussions about the things that are going wrong in your relationship.
Gemini (May 21 — June 20)
It's a trait that Semos says will “drive poor Scorpio crazy, and Scorpio won't really trust them.” As an Air sign, Geminis aren't really expressive when it comes to their feelings, which will eventually frustrate Scorpio.
Scorpios love to act quickly when they are feeling excited. They do not need a lot of time to express themselves to their partners because they are straightforward with their own opinions. They follow their instincts, and if doing so enables them to move quickly, they act without hesitation.
Top 5 things to know about the breakup with a Scorpio man:
He will go through all the stages, from denial to acceptance. He will likely attack his partner and blame her for the failing. He may also try to win her back through all sort of manipulations. Possibly, closure will be sought through a rebound relationship.
Scorpio men value their privacy and don't often share personal thoughts. If he starts reaching out to you more often, it's likely he misses you. He might send texts, call, or even leave you little notes. Increased communication is a clear sign he's thinking about you.
Scorpio demands complete loyalty from those they love. And they are willing to give their hundred percent to those they love. But sometimes in matters of the heart, this need for loyalty turns to obsession. This obsessive trait of ownership can even turn violent, abusive and sometimes destructive for their own good.
It's completely up to you to decide how often you expect him to text. Some people might be willing to wait a day or two, while others would wait up to a week.
Never attempt to contact or text him if he is giving you the silent treatment because this just indicates that he does not want to talk to you about anything at all.
Your Scorpio is trying to hold back his feelings, and he doesn't want you to see him staring at you. He may even avoid eye contact altogether, especially if he's on the shy side. Scorpio is a water sign, which means he's very in touch with his emotions.
Cancer is one sign who will happily give that to Scorpio, even long after the romantic relationship has ended. "The crab is very nostalgic and tends to keep in touch with their exes," Monahan says.
First and foremost, it's imperative to allow the Scorpio man time to start missing you in the first place. Absence makes the Scorpion's heart grow fonder. On the flip side, always seeking attention and texting nonstop makes every Scorpio under the sun think twice about responding.
Scorpio men are often nostalgic.
If you two have shared some good times together, send him a text or a pic about them as a fun reminder. The more he thinks about all the fun stuff you've done in the past, the more he'll start to miss you and want to create new memories.