Just be straightforward and ask how they are feeling. It's less vague than “How are you?” and shows right away that you are ready to hear about emotions. How are you feeling today? What emotions are coming up for you lately?
For example, ask about their biggest regret, embarrassing moments, illegal things they might have done, etc. Who was your first kiss? What is the biggest lie you've ever told? Who is the hottest person here?
There's no need to delay. Once you're alone and have made your crush comfortable, you should just tell them how you feel. The sooner you do it, the better, and the less likely you'll be to make yourself more nervous or likely to ramble on about something unrelated. Just be simple and direct.
A guy who likes you will always be nice and polite in his approach towards you and he will always look for avenues to spend more time alone with you and get to know more about you- either by going on a date, through constant phone calls or chats- the subtle signs are always there if you pay close attention.
Sometimes, simple is best. You could just go for it. "Be completely upfront and tell him how you feel about him," recommends relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom. Follow it up by explaining exactly what you like about him and what you want to do about it, she says.
How do you ask if someone likes you without sounding desperate?
Pose a vague question
If you want to ask someone if they like you without making it obvious, vagueness is the way to go. Asking a simple question like “We have so much fun together, do you want to do it again sometime?” can go a long way when you want to vaguely hint at your feelings without sounding desperate.
If he likes you, he will pay attention and show interest in you. You will feel important and special. When someone is not attracted to you he will NOT make you feel noticed or important. If he is paying more attention to you than others around him, that is a sign that he likes you.
When you add someone in Secret Crush, they'll be notified that an anonymous person has a crush on them. You will only match and your name will only be revealed if you both added each other as crushes. Unless there's a match, the secret crush won't know that you entered their name.
