What autistic people want you to know?

Follow @DimensionsUK on social media and tell us what you want people to know about autism.
  • We are all individuals. ...
  • Diagnosis isn't simple. ...
  • We have hobbies, not special interests. ...
  • Understand why we stim. ...
  • Our communication might be different. ...
  • Society needs more autism-friendly environments.

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What people with autism wish you knew?

10 Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew
  • I am a child.
  • My senses are out of sync.
  • Distinguish between won't (I choose not to) and can't (I am not able to).
  • I'm a concrete thinker. ...
  • Listen to all the ways I'm trying to communicate.
  • Picture this! ...
  • Focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can't do.

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What do people want to know about autism?

Children and adults with autism spectrum disorder often care deeply but struggle to spontaneously develop empathic and socially connected typical behavior. Individuals with ASD often want to interact socially but lack the ability to spontaneously develop effective social interaction skills.

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What are autistic people interested in?

Many autistic people have intense and highly-focused interests, often from a fairly young age. These can change over time or be lifelong. It can be art, music, gardening, animals, postcodes or numbers. For many younger children it's Thomas the Tank Engine, dinosaurs or particular cartoon characters.

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What questions should I ask an autistic person?

Questions you always wanted to ask a person with autism
  • Why is it hard for people with autism to communicate? ...
  • Does this mean you don't get irony or sarcasm? ...
  • Is it hard for you to make eye-contact? ...
  • Can you read facial expressions? ...
  • So do you ever offend anyone? ...
  • What about relationships? ...
  • Do you get sensory overload?

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What Autistic People Want You To Know About Autism

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How do I flirt with an autistic person?

How Do I Flirt?
  1. Be yourself. Let the person know who you are from the start. ...
  2. Smile often. Smiling at someone is one of the best and safest ways to show you are interested in them.
  3. Make eye contact. Making eye contact can help you express interest in someone. ...
  4. Chat. ...
  5. Be aware. ...
  6. Don't expect too much. ...
  7. Don't worry.

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How do you show an autistic person love?

Often autistic people find it easier to express love by doing things for their partner than by saying specific words or being physically affectionate. Doing little things for your partner shows that you care about them and want them to be happy.

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What triggers autism meltdowns?

What triggers autistic meltdowns?
  • Sensory overload or understimulation. This is when a child is sensitive to sound, touch, taste, smell, visuals or movements.
  • Changes in routine or dealing with an unexpected change. ...
  • Anxiety or anxious feelings.
  • Being unable to describe what they need or want.

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How to behave with an autistic person?

Communication and interaction tips for ASD
  1. Be patient. ...
  2. Teach the child how to express anger without being too aggressive. ...
  3. Be persistent but resilient. ...
  4. Always stay positive. ...
  5. Ignore irritating attention-getting behavior. ...
  6. Interact through physical activity. ...
  7. Be affectionate and respectful. ...
  8. Show your love and interest.

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Do autistic people want to be loved?

Many people with autism crave intimacy and love. But, they don't know how to achieve it in a romantic relationship. They can feel blind to everyday subtle social cues from their partner. This can cause conflict and hurt feelings.

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Which parent carries autism gene?

Does The Father Or Mother Carry The Autism Gene? Autism was always thought to have a maternal inheritance component, however, research suggests that the rarer variants associated with the disorder are usually inherited from the father.

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What are 3 positives of autism?

Having an extraordinarily good memory (being able to remember facts for a long period of time). Being precise and detail orientated. Exceptional honesty and reliability. Being dependable in regards to schedules and routines.

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What are 3 interesting facts about autism?

10 Facts about Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
  • ASD affects about 1 in 68 children in the United States, with more children identified than ever before.
  • ASD is about 4 times more likely in boys than girls.
  • ASD affects children of all racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic groups.

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Do autistic people prefer person first?

In our study, we surveyed autism stakeholders in the United States. Overwhelmingly, autistic adults (n = 299) preferred identity-first language terms to refer to themselves or others with autism. Professionals who work in the autism community (n = 207) were more likely to support and use person-first language.

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What feelings do autistic people have?

Autistic people who have trouble identifying their emotions, a condition known as alexithymia, are likely to have anxiety, depression and problems with social communication, according to a new study1.

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Does autistic people care about others?

While it is true that autistic people often have a harder time reading social cues, this does not necessarily demonstrate lack of empathy. This research has resulted in the significant conclusion that people living with autism do not care, and consequently lack a fundamental aspect of being a compassionate human.

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How does autism affect intimacy?

How Does Autism Affect Intimacy in Sexual Relationships? Intimacy is the sharing of emotional, cognitive, and physical aspects of oneself with those of another individual. People with autism often have problems with rigidity and the need for repetition, which may limit the spontaneity and playfulness of sexual contact.

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What not to say to an autistic person?

5 things to NEVER say to someone with Autism:
  • “Don't worry, everyone's a little Autistic.” No. ...
  • “You must be like Rainman or something.” Here we go again… not everyone on the spectrum is a genius. ...
  • “Do you take medication for that?” This breaks my heart every time I hear it. ...
  • “I have social issues too. ...
  • “You seem so normal!

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How do I make my autistic happy?

Positive reinforcement can go a long way with children with ASD, so make an effort to “catch them doing something good.” Praise them when they act appropriately or learn a new skill, being very specific about what behavior they're being praised for.

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What not to do with an autistic person?

What not to do with an autistic child
  • Let them think that autism is bad.
  • Try to “cure” them.
  • Blame every problem on their autism.
  • Punish them for stimming or meltdowns.
  • Pretend they can't hear you talking about them.

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What aggravates autism?

Sensory overload, changes in routine, social isolation, co-occurring conditions, and lack of support can all exacerbate the symptoms of autism. However, with early intervention, therapy, and support, individuals with autism can manage these challenges and improve their quality of life.

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How do you calm down an autistic person?

During a meltdown: what to do
  1. Guide your child to a safe place, if possible.
  2. Give your child space, don't touch them, and keep other people away.
  3. Turn down lights and keep things quiet, or give your child noise-cancelling headphones.
  4. Let one person speak to your child, but don't say too much.
  5. Stay calm and wait.

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Are autistic people loyal?

For instance, autistic people tend to be particularly honest, reliable, and loyal — some of the most important traits for a long-term relationship. You may just need to be more direct when communicating than you are used to and be prepared to give your partner space when they feel overstimulated.

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Do autistic people fall in love differently?

People with autism often experience love differently from neurotypical people. Their expression of love is less straightforward, as they tend to rely heavily on non-verbal communication. This can mean that those who are neurotypical may find it difficult to interpret the signs of affection.

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