Why is the wedding march not allowed in the Catholic Church?

'Wedding March' was composed for A Midsummer Night's Dream, a play that focusses on a Pagan god and goddess with its fair share of fairies and magic. Some religious leaders, particularly in the Roman Catholic churches, found the piece to be inappropriate for Christian ceremonies because of this.

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Why is the wedding march not allowed?

The plot of Shakespeare's play focuses on a pagan god and goddess and is filled with fairies, magic, and fantasy. Due to the piece's pagan, fantastic inspirations, some leaders and musicians — particularly in Roman Catholic churches — have found the piece to be inappropriate for a Christian religious ceremony.

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Why is the wedding march controversial?

There is some belief that Lutheran and Roman Catholic religions refuse to play the song because of Wagner's use of pagan stories and themes throughout his operas. Those in the Jewish community also refused to play the song at any of their wedding celebrations due to Wagner's thoughts on those of the Jewish faith.

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Why is Here Comes the Bride not allowed?

While Wagner wrote lyrics for this musical piece in his opera, the Bridal Chorus (as its performed at weddings today) is usually played on an organ, without any lyrics. "Here Comes the Bride" is a secular piece of music, and some churches advise against playing it during the procession, because of its secular nature.

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Is it wrong for a Catholic to attend a non Catholic wedding?

Catholics may attend all presumptively valid marriages of Catholics, non-Catholics, and non-Christians. For Catholics marrying other Catholics or marrying a non-Catholic Christian or non-Christian, a wedding is presumptively valid if it is done in accordance with Catholic marital law.

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Is it a sin to marry outside the Catholic Church?

The Catholic Church views marriages between non-Catholics or people of different faiths as valid and legitimate.

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Do Catholics recognize non Catholic marriage?

The Church considers the marriage bond between non-Catholics to be as equally binding as those of Catholics. Like marriages in the Catholic Church, the validity of these marriages is presumed until the contrary is proven. Therefore, the marriage of two non-baptized people is presumed to be valid.

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Can you play the wedding march in a Catholic church?

'Wedding March' was composed for A Midsummer Night's Dream, a play that focusses on a Pagan god and goddess with its fair share of fairies and magic. Some religious leaders, particularly in the Roman Catholic churches, found the piece to be inappropriate for Christian ceremonies because of this.

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Why do you not say congratulations to a bride?

"It is traditional to say 'Congratulations' to a groom after a wedding, but 'Best wishes' to the bride. The implication is that the groom has made a great 'catch', but that it would be impolite to say that the bride had."

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What should you never say to a bride?

15 Things You Should Never Say To A Bride To Be
  • Are you sure you want to eat that? ...
  • Can I wear white to your wedding? ...
  • Can I bring my brand new boyfriend? ...
  • I didn't love the bridesmaids dresses that you chose, so I chose my own! ...
  • What took you so long? ...
  • Do you need a flower girl? ...
  • Can you afford it?

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Who created the traditional Wedding March?

Usually, the “Bridal Chorus” is played without singing at modern weddings, but you can see the original lyrics and learn more about some of the controversy surrounding it here. The “Wedding March,” composed by Felix Mendelssohn, was created in 1842 to accompany Shakespeare's famous A Midsummer Night's Dream.

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Why did brides not smile?

They're not allowed to smile during the ceremony, or before it, or after it–nothing. Wait, why? The point of this is that the couple needs to be “serious about marriage.” If no one smiles, it means they are taking it seriously, literally.

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What is the origin of the wedding march?

But neither song was actually composed to be performed at a wedding. Rather, German composer Felix Mendelssohn wrote the “Wedding March” for an 1842 production of Shakespeare's A Midsummer Night's Dream, and “Here Comes the Bride” was the Bridal Chorus from Richard Wagner's 1850 opera Lohengrin.

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Is it taboo to get married on a Sunday?

Absolutely—but there are a few things to keep in mind. Saturday nights are the most common choices for weddings because they're super convenient for everyone. Guests can travel on Friday evening or Saturday morning, and then head home on Sunday, all without having to take time off work to be able to celebrate with you.

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Can I wear black to a March wedding?

According to our experts, the answer is yes. "Black can be worn to a formal wedding even if it's during the spring," says Coleman. She advises going for a shorter black dress rather than a longer style. When it comes to suits, you have even more freedom.

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What is the meaning of wedding march?

: a march of slow tempo and stately character that is composed or played to accompany the bridal procession.

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How do you tell the bride you don't want to be maid of honor?

“Tell the bride you'd be happy to be there to support her [throughout the planning process], and take a supporting role. You just can't take the lead.” Speaking of taking the lead, serving as the maid of honor is a time-consuming role that's not to be taken lightly.

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How do you tell a bride you can't be in her wedding?

If you're unsure where to begin, here is some language to use as a jumping off point: I am so honored that you asked me to be in your bridal party, but I'm going to have to decline. I know that being in the bridal party — even for someone who is low-key, like you!

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What do you call newly engaged couple?

During this period, a couple is said to be fiancés (from the French), betrothed, intended, affianced, engaged to be married, or simply engaged. Future brides and grooms may be called fiancée (feminine) or fiancé (masculine), the betrothed, a wife-to-be or husband-to-be, respectively.

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Can Catholics walk down the aisle to any song?

While the interpretation of that will depend on your church, you will need to run all potential songs choices by your church/priest. For instance most Catholic church's will allow songs from composer's such as Schubert, Handel, and Purcell to be played, even though they are not overtly secular.

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What is the rule of Catholic wedding?

Catholics cannot marry first cousins or anyone else in their immediate family. Both members of the couple should be unmarried. If either were previously married, they must be widowed or issued an annulment from the Catholic Church. It is the Church's teaching that marriage is between a man and a woman.

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Who walks down the aisle to the wedding march?

From walking down the aisle first to last, the traditional order is: Mother of Bride, Mother of Groom, Grandparents of Bride, Grandparents of Groom, Groom, Officiant, the Wedding Party, Maid of Honor and Best Man, Ring Bearer, Flower Girl and lastly the Bride and her Father.

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Can Catholics use condoms?

Pope John Paul II upheld the church's traditional prohibition on condoms.

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Can Catholics have tattoos?

I'll cut to the chase: There is nothing immoral about tattoos. Mother Church has never condemned them, and neither can I. It is one of those areas where a Catholic must follow his or her conscience.

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Can Catholic marry a divorced person?

The Catholic Church teaches that marriages are unbreakable unions, and thus remarrying after a divorce (without an annulment) is a sin.

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